May has finally come to a close! I enjoy the month of May, but it is by far one of the busiest months of the year. During this month we work calves and move cattle out to grass. With three girls we also seem to have graduations either for one of us or for family and friends. This year the youngest McCollum girl, Brenda, graduated from high school. Aadrian, the middle McCollum girl, also had to do her annual move back home from college. Basically, the month of May is not only busy on the farm, it's busy in every area of life.
We've also had a large amount of rain during the month of May. For almost a week straight we seemed to have rain at least once a day. Needless to say our planting is a bit behind, but our corn has started to come up!
When Aadrian comes home for the summer she becomes an extra hand out at the farm with me. This year we put her to work helping us work calves. It was her first time and she did awesome! She was nervous at first which is to be expected, but now she is on her way to becoming a pro. This leads me to my story for you guys. Last Wednesday we worked another batch of calves and we had a crazy calf in the bunch. I have never seen a calf act the way that this little dude did and neither has my dad or Uncle Frank. When we first got all the calves gathered behind the shoot he was running back and forth trying to jump the fence. His nose and mouth were all bloody from him running into the fence all morning. At one point I was trying to separate the crazy calf from the rest of the group so maybe they would all calm down and I ended up getting knocked in the nose with the gate. There was a lot of blood and it's still swollen and sore, but on the bright side it's not broken!
After all of that happened we took crazy little dude out of the pen and put him in the bigger pen away from the other calves so we could get the rest of them worked. It was much easier without the crazy calf in there. Once we were done with everyone else we had to figure out how to get the last one in the shoot without anyone else getting hurt. Dad took a stick into the pen and the calf ran at him. Dad hit him in the head a few times and basically wore him out enough to get him into the shoot. After we worked him his energy level came back up because he went right back to charging at everybody. Luckily we're all great at climbing fences to get out of the way. We were worried he was going to give himself a heat stroke from trying to jump the fence and running at everyone, but thankfully he didn't and now he is out on grass for the summer. Aadrian and I were so happy to be done with that calf. The next day we were both tired, bruised, and scratched up from our time with the calves.
Our dad was blessed with us three girls. Since he has no sons, we were raised the way he would have raised sons. Instead of being in the house we have always been expected to be out working the calves with the guys. Granted there are some things we will never be able to do that boys can do. We will never has as much physical strength as our dad, but that's okay. We'll always figure out another way to get things done. Working on the farm is still largely considered a man's job in a man's world. I think it's a shame that people still see it as that. You see things about being the farmer's wife, but never the farmer's husband. My husband married into the crazy family business and he is the most awesome man. He gets called into the farm to help out more than he should, especially since he has a full time job. I am very blessed to have him in my life and for him to be willing to help out on the farm. My sisters and I work just as hard on our family farm as many sons do to help their fathers. I hope someday we will see more women going back to the family farm and more recognition for all the farmers, men and women. For now Aadrian and I will continue to work like the big boys and we'll see how many bruises we come out of it with.